Tropical Storm Potty Training

Summer is over. We went back to school this past week. No, it was not easy. I knew leading up to it that it was going to be difficult, but I was hoping that I prepped myself enough for it. Boy was I wrong. I waited until I had made it safely into my car before I let my tears go so it wouldn't affect Connor, but he was already crying when I had to walk away. I'm not sure it will ever get easy. This year is going to be interesting for sure, and I hope I'm not completely exhausted by the time I get home. This week though I was completely wiped out by 3pm, and felt numb by Friday. I need to learn my new routine and rhythm because being a mommy takes a lot of energy and I can't be running on empty.

After week one we went into our first weekend under a Hurricane watch. Isaac was on it's way and Dade County Public Schools were canceled for Monday (today)! It has been a pretty dreary and wet weekend, and after prepping our house Sunday after church for the storm we packed up to weather it out at Grandma Glenda's. We spent our time watching movies, making yummy snacks, and today we tackled potty training. Connor did great!!! He figured out how to go on the potty, and he loved the celebration after each successful attempt. I can't get over it. I thought for sure he wouldn't get it, but he did! There were a few accidents but then it got to the point where when he knew it was coming, he would get right up and head straight for the potty on his own, no prompting. He is growing up too fast. We measured him the other day at 36 inches.....that is more than HALF of me! I can't believe how much he learns and does every day, and he's not yet 2. Ok, Ok, he still isn't sleeping through the night....but I've got other things blowing me away!

"Nooooo"

  

 I think I'm kicking and screaming knowing that I have to head back to school in a few days. We have truly had such an amazing summer, and I am in awe at the amount we have done and experienced. I am in even more awe of how much Connor has grown, learned, and developed. He has certainly grown into toddlerhood, and I can't believe he will be turning two in just a few months. While Uncle Casey was home we tried to do all of the fun local things to do in Miami, and of course we had to take a trip down to Lincoln Road on Miami Beach. Connor's favorite part of the excursion was the Frozzzen Hot Chocolate from Serendipity 3. I can't wait to take him to NYC to experience the original. I don't think he was complaining though, and neither were any of us!

 Another fun adventure we took was to the Keys. It was one place Uncle Casey specifically asked to visit while he was home. We made it into an overnight trip and took advantage of all of the fun touristy things to do. Of course there's Robbie's where you feed the Tarpon's and Connor enjoyed throwing the bait fish into the water. At one point he even got to lay down on the dock to tempt one of the big fish. He is fearless, and we held on really tightly! We also ate at the original Islamorada Fish Company for dinner, and had so much fun! The sunset was breath taking and Connor liked throwing his french fries off the dock to the fish below.

 Our group shot of the Southernmost Tourists of the Continental USA. Though it was a little hot to begin with we had fun walking all over Key West. We actually went to Hemingway's House and toured the grounds, while Connor looked for his Kitties at every turn. His rendition of "here kitty kitty" is pretty hysterical! It did end up raining while we were there and that really cooled everyone off. We stopped at Red Fish, Blue Fish for lunch, and walked for our delicious chocolate dipped key lime pie. I think Connor has my sweet tooth, because all of my yummy pie on a stick was shared with him!

 No summer is complete without swimming, and we have had our fair share of it this summer. He has learned how to jump in Grandma's pool, and loves playing on the steps. He got to go to the Splash Park with his friend Nathaniel and they both had fun splashing, and sliding all over the place. It was cute how Connor would call him "baby" and really wanted to be near his friend. He even shared his fruit bites with him. Now that's a big deal!

 On our last Sunday Family Night with everyone here, we took a picnic dinner to the beach. What is summer without the beach right? Connor of course loved playing in the sand and surf, and it was great quality time together. Connor lathers his love on us, and there was no lack of kisses and hugs. I think he knew Uncle Casey was getting ready to leave. He would latch on to his leg and hug to his little heart's content.

Connor is growing daily. This past weekend he learned the word I thought would never come..."no". Honestly it is so funny to hear it coming out of his mouth, but not always what I want to hear. It's usually a long sound with lots of O's attached. He also got a new toy this weekend that has now become a favorite. It's a stuffed Ty Giraffe that he calls "Raff". Without prompting when it was put away he started calling for it immediately, "Raff! Raff!". His first time saying a word he wasn't specifically taught. It was an neat moment for Daddy and I. Just today he started trying to say his own name! He usually refers to himself as "Baby" when he sees himself in pictures, but today we turned a new page. I don't want to miss any of this. I love being there when he does and tries new things. I think I hold onto our shared apron strings as much as he does. This will be a tough school year to get through. I am blessed to have a great job, but I love being mom so much more. Who wouldn't want to be around this precious boy all the time?

Summer Days, Driftin' Away

to, uh-oh those Summer Nights....

 We hit the ground running coming back home after the reunion. We were so glad to have Uncle Casey home that we wanted to do as much as possible knowing we have a limited amount of time. Of course we got to celebrate the Fourth of July together, and it isn't very often that we are actually in town to celebrate. What is nice about being home is being able to set off your own TNT, and we made sure to stock up in South Carolina on our trip back. The boys had a lot of fun making things go boom, and Connor wasn't thrilled with the loud noises and fell asleep out of desperation. I think next year will be better for him to enjoy the fireworks.

 Our next major milestone was Tim's birthday! Birthday's are a big deal in this family and we always want to make sure the person feels loved and celebrated. I think we made that happen, and we enjoyed an evening with family and friends at Tim's choice of restaurant. We still talk about how much fun we had that night, and Tim rang in his last birthday in his 20s with a bang.

 Connor always enjoys his time with his aunts and uncles, whether related or not. We are blessed by the people who wish to have him in their life. He found the race car arcade game immediately, and was spoiled by the guys who all wanted to race with him. He was on cloud nine. He loves anything that goes vroom, and currently calls trains "chi-chi"s! I laugh every time!!

 Tim specifically asked for cake and cupcakes from Publix. He is on a kick with their icing, and Connor couldn't wait to dig in himself.

 For the weekend of his birthday we decided to take a stay-cation and stayed at the PGA National Resort and Spa. Daddy had fun getting to play golf after a long hiatus, and mommy and Connor spent some quality time at the pool. We all enjoyed rest and relaxation! Connor has been working on his "cheese" face recently and I giggle every time he goes for it big time!

 We met Grandma Glenda, Uncle Casey, and Aunt Kaitlyn in West Palm Beach for a day at Lion Country Safari. Not only did Connor get to drive through the complex on daddy's lap he also got to see a lot of cool animals up close. He couldn't get enough of it. His ooohs, and aaaaahs, and animal sounds filled our car and our hearts. I'm sure there will be another trip to this neat zoo before the summer is over.

 After the car ride there is an area with rides and even more animals. We had even more fun here, and for some of us, was the highlight of the trip.

 The Lory enclosure was incredible and we all had up close and personal encounters with these pretty little birds. Connor kept holding his arm out for one to land on, and wanted to do it over and over again. Aunt Kaitlyn was practically a bird whisperer, and we each got nibbled on by these colorful parrot-like birds.

 We've had great playtime outside and in the pool. That is what summer is for! There may be a few more mini-trips on the horizon but a lot is up in the air. Thursday marked a new level of stress in this family that we weren't expecting, and with it more stress came from another angle, and just wait a day because another new stress came from another angle. We are all juggling a lot right now, and yet we can still count our blessings. Then on Saturday morning beautiful Grandma Glenda was diagnosed with Bell's Palsy, and even though there is a slight difference, Connor still can't get enough of her. Just now before going down for his nap he was asking for her. We don't know how long it will last but regardless it could have been worse, and I am beyond grateful that it wasn't. As for the other stresses, they too will sort themselves out. Prayer is a powerful tool! There are areas we are learning about, areas we a growing from, and areas we are moving on from. We just take it one day at a time, and appreciate the gift we have in each other.

Harriet's Reunion

Psalm 103:17

But from everlasting to everlasting the LORD's love is with those who fear him, and his righteousness with their children's children

This is where it all began. Great Grandma Harriet, Aunt Merilee, and Grandma Glenda. Your Great Grandpa Woody helped too, but that's for another time. After Grandpa Gary's accident Great Grandma Harriet made a special request that we all do something together, as a family, during the coming summer. What a wonderful idea it was, and Uncle Buzz and Grandma Glenda jumped right to the task of planning a glorious family reunion in our Smokey Mountains. They found a great cabin in Maggie Valley to hold all 16 of us, and all we had to do was create the lasting memories. Boy did we!!

 This was our first day of hiking, we went up to an Elk preserve and walked along a beautiful stream. If you look at this picture you will see Uncle Buzz, Papa, Grandma, Uncle Casey, Cousin Boomer, you and Daddy, Cousin Zack, Mommy, Cousin Megan, Aunt Merilee, Cousin Lindsey and Aunt Kaitlyn. You started the hike asleep on daddy, and when you did "hike" you took a little tumble in your excitement. You are all boy! We did see one elk, and even spotted some gnats! Ha! It was the perfect way to all reconnect and catch up!

 Our little family of course had to go to Dollywood. It is a long standing part of our normal North Carolina trips and it would have been a shame to miss it. You loved being able to drive your own vintage car with daddy as your passenger. They propped you up on a booster seat, and the look on your face was priceless. You even got to go on a few rides all by yourself for the first time! You did great! We can't forget the old time pictures we took! You were so handsome dressed as a soldier!

We finished our day on the Choo-Choo, and you couldn't have been any more thrilled. Uncle Casey got a special treat when we stopped at the Titanic Museum on the way home. Everyone was happy!!

 Uncle Buzz worked very hard to give us a special surprise for this trip. He created custom t-shirts for us to wear to remember our special time together. Though a few of us thought the surprise was Cousin Megan giving you a second cousin to play with, we thought the shirts were great! We were even able to set up an opportunity to take family pictures at a special spot at the cabin. The view was great, and it reminded me of where we would take pictures at your Great Great Grandma Grace's house in Boone. I know we will cherish these pictures for years to come, thank goodness for a timer and fast running!

 This is the special bond a family creates with love, support, respect, and care. We are lucky to be close though we live so far apart from one another!

 Cabin living offered us many opportunities to do fire pits and make s'mores. Of course we introduced them to smoreos which we made last year out of necessity at Grandpa Gary's cabin, and it's always a sweet memory when we enjoy them.

 The cousins were able to enjoy a day of horseback riding up to a 1,000 foot elevation that overlooked the valley. The ride was excellent, we cantered 3 times, stopped and picked blackberries, and even dismounted at the top to enjoy the spectacular view! Yes we may have had to crawl under a barbed wire fence and walk into a cow pasture, but come on, the cows shouldn't be the only ones to appreciate the view!

 The bear picture started much before I can even remember. On our trips into Cherokee, this particular bear used to live on the side of a store wedged onto the mountain. They used to sit us up on top of it and year after year we would go back and take the same picture. One year it wasn't there, and we went on a search and found it now belonged to a hotel that had it posted out by it's pool. Uncle Casey and I always felt foolish walking past the swimmers to go and take our picture, but Grandpa Gary always insisted, and we went along with it for his benefit. Then one year it moved again! Grandpa Gary was on a mission to find it, and learned it was now at the hotel's second location near the new casino. So we located it and for the past few years the annual picture was at this spot. I remember as a teenager dreading this picture, and now with dad not here to prompt us it became our mission to fulfill this year's slot. There is one precious year with Grandpa Gary and you in the picture with the bear, but I hope there are many more years in store with this special shot.

 One of our many game nights! If we weren't playing ultimate uno, we were playing phase 10 or spoons. The laughter, yells, and whoops probably could have been heard down the mountain, but we were having fun! It became something we looked forward to every night. Sure, we had cable, but the TV wasn't on for this, it's called quality time!

 Our second day of hiking took us to the top of Waterrock Nob, which is the second highest point you can climb to on the Blue Ridge, and Soco Falls. The climb to the top was intense and it seemed to me straight up! It was a little hot, and you and daddy were strapped to each other making it even hotter for the two of you. The Bakewell girls were champs and made it first, and it brought to mind how fit this whole family is. I love that!

 Our last day at the cabin wasn't just hard in having to say goodbye but it also signified the day we would go to Grandpa Gary's cabin. I will not say it was easy. There were many tears shed that day by all of us. The dishes left in the drying rack ready to be put away. The clean laundry waiting to be folded. I half expected him to come walking in with his great laugh and smile and scoop us up into a hug. The cabin looked as if he just went out for a walk and was coming back. This was just a short visit, and I  know it will be a big task to start to clean it up and put things where they really go. But the bandaid was ripped off fast and I was able to go back for the first time with my loved ones there with me.

 On our way out of Cashiers we made one final stop to go see Silver Run, which is one last thing we did with Grandpa Gary last year. Going to these places for the first time was hard, but the way we did it, with the support of each other, made it special and manageable.

While at the cabin we found a drawer full of mementos that Grandpa Gary had kept over the years. He saved every Father's Day card, every letter, even Commencement programs from Tim, Casey, and my graduations. That broke us all down. To see the care he took in keeping those items puts things into perspective. It is a shame when you have one family that purposefully hurts their children, and another that takes great care in making them feel special and loved. I will never understand why things happened the way they did, but I know I have a Heavenly Father that is in control and has a plan. We had a wonderful vacation in the Smokies with a terrific family that loves one another. Connor learned so many things while we were all together, and is even repeating the ABC's now! Yes, there are always flaws, but isn't that what stories are made of? We are truly blessed!